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Q: Hi , I am having some trouble with this guy I know we are both 14. I go to his house , we have fun, and we fool around (sexually) now he says that he doesn't like me anymore then a friend. Is this wrong, and how can I get him to like me. I guess you would call me good-looking, I just don't know what is wrong.
A: About your question... have youhad sex with the boy? Did he force you into doing something you didn'twant to? I hope he didn't, but I have to ask... Assuming that he didn't,you just have to realize that boys can be stupid sometimes, just like wegirls can be a little crazy. A lot of boys play the game of chase andonce they get the prize they lose interest. It's not fair, but that's howit is. My question for you is why at 14 are you fooling around sexually?Are you having sex with him? I am not trying to preach to you, I justwonder if you are capable of handling the emotions that go along with asexual relationship. I can barely handle it with my boyfriend of 2 yearsand I am 22!
Honestly, I don't know what to tell you about this guy. Some ofthem are just jerks and act this way. Try asking him what is going on orcut your losses and move on because my guess is that you are way toocool for him anyways! Hope this helps! --MC
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